Kids' shots are rarely easy, and as a single parent, the task can be even more challenging because you have to be your children's disciplinarian and comforter at the same time. Fortunately, though, there are some things you can do before your kids' next vaccination appointment to make the event go more smoothly.
Choose a Convenient Time For the Vaccination Appointment - In addition to considering your own schedule, think about whether there's a certain time of day that would make getting the kids' shots easier. For example, choosing an early morning appointment might give your children less time to fret over it, and might also eliminate the chance that they'll be overtired, and thus, more likely to have a tantrum or act out.
Be Honest With Your Kids About Shots - It's okay not to mention ahead of time that your children will be getting shots during the appointment, but if your children ask you directly, do not lie. In the end, they're more likely to be remember that you were dishonest with them than to recall actually receiving the shot itself.
It's Okay to Offer a Bribe - Actually, it's not a bribe. It's more like a promise. Let your children know what you will be doing after the appointment to celebrate getting through it. For example, you might stop for ice cream or fruit smoothies on the way home, or visit a park you know your children enjoy. Be careful not to pose this suggestion with the word "if," though. For example, say, "When we we're done, we'll get ice cream," rather than "If we get through it," or "If you're good..."
Expect Some Screaming to Accompany Your Kids' Shots - Let's face it -- kids' shots are scary and painful! But they're also a necessary part of preserving your kids' health. Plus, it's not a bad life lesson to learn that sometimes we have to endure tough, difficult circumstances for our own good. So plan on walking in the door expecting that your children may cry, scream, and throw a fit. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't go ahead with the appointment. However, girding yourself with the resolve to get through it and be a loving, comforting presence will make the painful part of taking your kids for shots -- the screaming -- a little easier to endure.
