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Things are supposed to be easier in the summer, right? But the opportunity for more flexibility can actually make it harder to compromise with your ex about issues like overnights, transportation, and child support payments.
Before you get into a battle, take a moment to consider the other person's point of view, as well as your kids' needs. For help with specific issues, read 5 Summer Parenting Questions Answered.
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Begin by thinking about what you'd like your new-and-improved social like to look like. Are you hoping to date again? Develop close friendships with one or two individuals you can count on and commiserate with? Have something to do while your kids visit with your ex?
Start by asking yourself the key questions outlined in the FAQ: How do single parents meet new people?
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When you're the new kid in school, the teacher assigns you a guide to show you where to put your backpack, how to find the lunch room, and help you navigate your new setting. But as a newly-single parent, you may be completely on your own. And even if you have a friend who's been through it, her experience may be completely different from what you're going through.
That's why this site exists -- for people just like you. If this is your first time here, use the Newly Single tab at the top of the page to find resources, or begin with the article Single Parenting Tips: Survive Your First Year as a Newly Single Parent.
Don't forget to stop by the Single Parents' Forum and introduce yourself, too.
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"Now that we're separated, we argue even more than we did when we were together! It just makes me want to give up and stop trying to work together."
Arguing about things like parenting time, discipline, and parenting styles is common. In fact, expecting to never argue with your ex would be unrealistic.
The trick is to learn how to fight fair. It takes time and effort to develop a healthy co-parenting relationship where you can collaborate with one another as equals -- and it's hard work! But think about the end goal. If your effort to stop arguing with your ex leads to a greater sense of security for your kids -- and ultimately to less stress for you -- then it will be worth the effort.
What helps you? Take a moment to share anything that's helped you collaborate with your ex by leaving a comment below.
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