After parents separate, it is completely conceivable that the level of income in a household will change. Prior to granting benefits, any government office will inquire as to whether you're receiving child support from the child's mother or father. If not, they will make every effort to collect child support from the parent, in order to recoup some of the expenses which would otherwise be paid by the government. In addition, the government will also seek reimbursement directly from the parent whose name is on the birth certificate, or from the person identified as the other parent by the individual seeking government assistance.
Governmental Interest in Child Support Awards For Public Assistance Purposes
The purpose of the county, city, or state government seeking the maternity or paternity of the other parent is to protect the public interest. If a parent does not support the child, the responsibility falls to the state. Because government support is income-based, many parents may have a difficult time applying for public aid when a child support order is in place. Public benefits includes assistance with:
- Day care
- Food stamps
- Financial assistance
- Housing assistance
Separation, Child Support and Public Assistance
Many married parents, determined to separate, may proactively attempt to obtain public assistance; however, without an actual order in place, a government office will not authorize government benefits. Instead, the parents will continue to be viewed as dependent. A parent, seeking government assistance, who has yet to divorce, should seek a legal separation agreement, filed with the court. You'll need a separation agreement with a support provision. You can then take that to the government assistance office, and they can offset their assistance amount with the child support agreement. In most states, a separation agreement will merge into a divorce decree after one year.
Same-Sex Partners and Child Support
Generally, courts are reluctant to enforce a child support obligation on a parent who lacks a biological connection to the child. However, an obligation often exists for a same-sex partner to support a child, upon separation, if the parents agreed to become co-parents, either by artificial insemination, a surrogate, or naturally. In this case, the court will enforce child support obligations prior to providing government benefits, or the court will seek reimbursement for government benefits currently being provided on behalf of the child.
Prior to applying for government assistance, make sure that there is a proper child support order in place. If there isn't, the government will expect you to apply for child support, or will attempt to obtain reimbursement from the other parent for some of the public assistance benefits paid to you and your child.