When a parent writes a letter to a child, it's magical. Consider writing to each of your children at least once a year, perhaps on their birthdays or around the holidays. This type of tradition is a tangible expression of your love and pride, as well as the ongoing hopes and dreams you have for your children's future.
Not sure how to get stated? Here are seven specific words to include when you write a letter to a child:
1. "Love"
Of course you want to tell your child how you feel! Even if "I love you" is something you say every day, the message is conveyed differently when the words are shared in writing. For example, you might say:
2. "Notice"
When writing a letter to your child, share what you've noticed recently about him or her. How has she grown? What positive characteristics do you see emerging? For example:
3. "Enjoy"
Describe what you enjoy doing together. This will mean a lot to your child, and it will help put the letter into context when he or she reads it again in the years to come. For example:
4. "Proud"
Be specific when you describe what makes you proud. This is something we all long to hear, and the words will be like nourishment to your child when he or she re-reads the letter years from now. For example, you might express pride in your child's:- Interpersonal relationships
- Academic progress and/or work ethic
- Athletic abilities and/or various talents
5. "Cherish"
In each letter to your child, share a few memories that mean a lot to you personally. Your stories will communicate truth in a way that's more memorable to your child than any singular compliment. For example, you might include:
- Memories of a shared vacation
- An observation you'll never forget
- The memory of a time when you realized your child had grown in some way
6. "Hope"
In addition, take the time to share your highest hopes in your letter. For example, you might include:- Your hopes for your child's friendships
- Your hopes for your child's own observations of his or her talents
- Your hopes regarding his or her own dreams
7. "Believe"
This is an opportunity to share your confidence in your child, as well as the beliefs that continue to motivate you personally. For example, you might include the following when writing a letter to a child:
- Your own convictions about his or her future.
- A Bible verse that speaks to this time in his or her life.
- A quotation that has touched you personally.
