From the article: A Fresh Perspective on Single Parent Dating
Single parents' dating experiences can, unfortunately, be riddled with faux pas. For example, you think everything is going well, until the guy lets it slip that he doesn't want kids, ever. Or, the woman you're dating confides in you that she can't stand her niece and nephew--just when you were ready to tell her about the precious angels waiting for you back home!
How about you? Have you ever found yourself in a situation that was an absolute deal breaker? Take a moment to share some of the worst single parents' dating scenarios you've experienced.
Share Your Story"Just Get Rid of Her"
- I was dating a guy who was fine with the fact that I'm a single mom, until he realized how much it influenced my life. Then I was met with: "Well, can't you get a babysitter?," "Just leave her with your parents," and, "It can't be that hard, just get rid of her." My thoughts were "Oh no, I'm done!"
- —Guest wildheart
Wait... What?
- I had talked to a guy online through a friend and had mentioned before we met that I had a three-year-old son. He didn't say anything about it, so I assumed he was okay with it. When we finally did meet in person, I mentioned my son, and he seemed shocked--as if finding out for the first time. He responded with, "Wait, don't you have a pro-choice sticker on your car?" (Which I do). I said "yes," and he then said, "Well why do you have a kid then?" That response completely killed any interest I had with him. The night ended shortly after that, and I have not seen him since.
- —Guest Asprono
