Family Problem #1: "We're Getting a Divorce"
Because separation and divorce have such a profound impact on kids, it's crucial that you let your child's teacher know what is going on at home. Be careful, though, to be explicit about what he or she may share with others, including your child. You don't want your child to hear details from his or her teacher that you haven't shared at home yet.
In addition, ask your child's teacher to let you know about any changes in your child's behavior, academic performance, or overall attitude. The sooner you know of any changes, the easier it will be to step in and help.
Family Problem #2: "We're Experiencing Severe Child Custody Conflict"
Severe conflict surrounding the issue of child custody is another concern to share with your child's teacher. In particular, if you are concerned that the other parent may try to pick your child up from school without your permission, you should inform the front office of your concerns and make sure that they have a list of the people who may lawfully pick up your child.
Family Problem #3: "We're Facing Potential Medical Problems"
Whether it's your child who is experiencing medical problems, or another member of the family, it's important to let your child's school know what is going on. In the event that it is your child who is facing medical challenges, the school can be a valuable resource to you in providing a record of observable changes. In addition, in the event that your child is on medication, it's important for the school to be aware of that, as well.
In the event that you, or another close family member, are experiencing medical problems, your child's teachers should be informed so that they can be alert to any changes in your child's behavior that may be connected to his or her anxiety level.
Family Problem #4: "We're Having Financial Problems"
This is another family problem that is understandably private. However, letting your child's school know that you are experiencing financial problems opens the door to additional assistance. For example, you will want to apply to free or reduced lunch. In addition, the school may be able to provide additional snacks, school supplies, and other valuable resources.
Family Problem #5: "We Might Be Moving"
An impending move is another issue that you should share with your child's teacher. For one thing, he or she can assist you by providing academic work for your child during the transition. In addition, your child's teacher should be informed so that he or she can respond with compassion in the event that your child becomes emotional, or begins to express anger uncharacteristically, while at school.
Family Problem #6: "There Has Been a Death in the Family"
Finally, let your child's teacher know as soon as possible when you have experienced a death in the family. This is another issue that is bound to greatly affect your child, and having the opportunity to be surrounded by caring, empathetic adults can assist his or her grief process.
