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Encourage a Healthy Sense of Independence at Any Age

By Jennifer Wolf, About.com

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Fostering Independence in Pre-Teens

Infants | Toddlers | Preschoolers | School-age Children | Pre-teens | Teenagers

This is a time when your child may experiment with wanting more independence than you are comfortable with. To develop this in a healthy way, you can:
  • Teach your child how to use an assignment pad to keep track of homework.

  • Allow your child to make some minor mistakes and learn from them.

  • Intentionally teach your child how to work through conflicts with her peers. Simply preparing your child with some practical conflict-resolution skills will help foster independence and confidence.

  • Teach your child to use an alarm clock, if he does not have one already.

  • Keep your computer in a central location so that you can easily supervise your child's use of the Internet.
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