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Encourage a Healthy Sense of Independence at Any Age

By , About.com Guide

Fostering Independence in School-age Children
Infants | Toddlers | Preschoolers | School-age Children | Pre-teens | Teenagers

At this stage, children are actually craving more responsibility and independence. You can use this to your advantage by:
  • Having your child participate in household chores, such as vacuuming, dusting, and washing dishes.

  • Teaching your child to make at least part of her own breakfast and lunch.

  • Teaching your child to use a watch and incorporate time in some directions you give. (Such as, "You can go next door, but I want you to be home by 4:30.")

  • Providing a responsibility chart so your child can keep track of the household chores he has completed.

  • Teaching your child to think independently about commercials and advertisements aimed at children.

  • Teaching your child to monitor his own TV time and video game time.

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