I am a parent who pays child support for one child and have three children at home to support and one in college. Because I live out of state, the court decided the maximum for me to pay and did not consider my other children.
I am currently disabled and have no income. Meanwhile, child support payments are still due, even while I am not able to work. How do I make it with little or no finances?
Unfortunately, your situation is not uncommon. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 7,256,000 custodial parents were due child support in 2003. However, only 3,290,000 (or 45.3%) received the full amount. That means that there are many, many non-custodial parents who are unable to pay their child support dues in full. In cases like yours, there is a valid underlying reason which calls for the re-examination of the child support order.
What Should You Do?
First, contact the Child Support Enforcement Office in the state where the child support order was issued. What you'll need to do is file a formal motion requesting a modification due to changed circumstances.
The amount of child support you owe was originally determined using your income and financial reports provided at that time. However, as we know, circumstances do change. In fact, this can happen many times over the years that you are paying child support.
Keep in mind that it is far better to request a modification due to changed circumstances than to fail to pay child support.
What Are Changed Circumstances?
Either parent can request a modification due to changed circumstances. Examples of circumstances which may necessitate a change in the child support order include:
- Changes in income
- Medical expenses
- Additional costs associated with raising the child as he or she grows
Please note that it is crucial, for your own protection, to have the order formally modified through the court. Avoid entering into a non-binding oral agreement, which could fail to be recognized by the courts during a future dispute over the amount of money that is owed.
Grall, Timothy S. "Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2003." Child Support Reports. Jul 2006. U.S. Census Bureau. 15 Nov. 2006 [http://www.census.gov/prod/2006pubs/p60-230.pdf].